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The Importance of Resilient Children In a Digital Age

By Life Skills Group

Published 1 May 2020 08.00 AM

Have you ever seen a child try to do something they've never done before and just give up because they fail and it just seems all  too hard? Only to watch their friend do the same thing, also fail but then try again, sometimes several times, until they get it right. I think we can all relate to this if you cast your mind back to when you were learning to ski or ride a bike for the first time, sometimes it's difficult to find the desire to push on and this drive to push on is what is known as resilience.

So how do we teach children to develop such a valuable ability in this digital age?


But first, what is resilience?

Resilience is our ability to manage the challenges and setbacks that come with life and then return from this adversity to normal or better yet, stronger for the experience.

It isn’t an inherent character trait but rather a response to adversity which draws upon the strength of several social emotional skills to be achieved. According to this Literature Review of 1,979 studies it was concluded:

“There appears to be a range of factors that may contribute to resilience in children across different social ecological domains. At an individual level, factors such as emotion regulation, cognitive skills, empathy or a positive outlook have been associated with resilient outcomes.”

These determinants of resilient outcomes are learnable, particularly in children of primary school age, as their brains are rapidly developing and growing - which makes taking onboard information easier. Resilience has always been an important ability to teach children and adolescents to be able to cope in day to day life. However, the digital age has introduced a whole new set of challenges reinforcing why we need to teach the skills for building resilience in young children, and how to reduce the impact of negative online interactions.


The Growing Importance of Teaching The Skills For Resilience

Throughout the 21st century to date, we have seen an unprecedented and exponential growth in information and how it’s delivered to anyone with access to the internet, which in Australia, is 88% of the population. This has fast-tracked children’s learning and development significantly and provided enormous career opportunities which didn’t exist even 15 years ago. The internet provides children with many opportunities, yet it does not come without risks.


Research found 72% of Australian schools reported managing at least one incident of online bullying in the previous year

It is clear with the improvement in access to the internet and technology, the potential presence of online bullying grows equally. Therefore, education must exist around developing the social, emotional and physical skills to improve resilient outcomes and wellbeing among young internet users. 

Aside from reducing the impact of cyber-bullying, children (and adults) need resilience for overcoming internal challenges as well as to support their goals and outlook for the future.


Resilient outcomes are reliant on these 3 core skills: 

  • Effective Self-Management/Self-Regulation
  • Strong Relationship Skills
  • Developed Social Awareness

By improving these skills in children, they can better cope with any negative interactions online, whilst not affecting their ability to expand their understanding and knowledge of ICT literacy - a subject which is recognised as being another key 'skill for 21st century learners' by the World Economic Forum.


So, where do you start with improving resilience in children?

Life Skills Group has been teaching students these skills in schools for over 10 years, via our team of skilled instructors who deliver evidence-based and curriculum-aligned programs. These programs give students a foundation of skills needed from a young age to be resilient and manage challenges typically faced later in adolescence.

Almost 2 years ago, the transition to take these in-school programs to online learning began. With the support of Dr Dan Siegel, a team of advisors, as well as school principals, and teachers, Life Skills GO was developed for use in the classroom.

Life Skills GO is currently used in over 200 schools in NSW to support teachers confidently teach the skills of social, emotional and physical learning using blended learning pedagogy.

What you can do at home to support building resilience in your children?

Due to the current global crisis, Life Skills GO has been tailored for use by parents in the home environment. It is a great resource to use when you are looking for something to entertain the kids, and feel confident knowing that it is fun and engaging for the kids, but also supporting their mental health and wellbeing. It includes online lessons, quizzes and games, mindfulness activities & recordings, as well as 100s of downloadable resources covering everything from fundamental movement skills with instructions to movement cards & non-competitive games. 

By introducing the language that is taught via the online platform through a variety of activities, families can give children the best possible opportunity to form resilient outcomes.


Parents needing some support with teaching your child Resilience?  Check out Life Skills GO to find resources to support the mental health and wellbeing our your child. Schools and Teachers, we have you covered as well - send us an email nikki.bonus@lifeskillsgroup.com.au  Also, don’t forget to connect with us on FacebookTwitter and Instagram.
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