We often hear about resilience yet, what is it? How can we build it in ourselves and others? Life Skills Group believes that every teacher, student and family member should have access to tools to build their wellbeing.
Neuroscientist, Dr. Richard Davidson, believes that “well-being is fundamentally no different than learning to play the cello.” What he means is that you can improve your wellbeing; it is a skill that can be developed. Dr. Davidson advocates four components of wellbeing supported by neuroscience, and research suggests that mental training in each area can make a significant difference. Resilience is the first pillar, and the one we’ll explore today.
PILLAR 1: RESILIENCE
When something negative happens in your life, how long does it take for you to recover? Some people can rebound more quickly than others, and it is how we overcome adversities that matters. Dr. Davidson found that people who feel they have a greater purpose in life tend to recover better than others as their sense of purpose drives them, and they are able to reframe stressful situations productively.
Research suggests that mental training may help people rebound quicker. New research conducted at the Healthy Minds lab asks whether mindfulness can alter our neural circuits involved in resilience. While the preliminary data suggests it could take thousands of hours, it doesn’t rule out the possibility. It is not something that can be achieved overnight, however, this insight can certainly motivate us to practice mindfulness.
Taking the right steps to look after your wellbeing can help you to deal better with pressure, and reduce the impact stress has on you. Here are some techniques parents and teachers can use to build resilience both for themselves and children.
MAKE LIFESTYLE CHANGES
There are a some basic lifestyle changes you can make that will enable you to cope better with stress, including:
LOOK AFTER YOUR HEALTH
Being healthy can help you manage stress.
GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK
Learning to go easy on yourself can help control the amount of pressure you feel in different situations.
Our brains are continuously being shaped. With mindfulness, we have the opportunity to take responsibility to strengthen our resilience.