It's a common misconception that student behaviour is solely a matter of choice. While students certainly have agency, their actions are often influenced by complex emotional states. Understanding these emotions can be a powerful tool for educators to prevent negative behaviours and foster positive learning environments.
Emotions are the driving force behind our actions, but they are not an excuse for behaviour. Emotions are natural and normal; there are no ‘bad’ emotions and no ‘good’ emotions, but there are certainly ‘bad’ and ‘good’ behaviours. It is okay to feel angry because someone cheated in handball; it is not okay to push someone because you are angry at them for cheating. The first step in emotional regulation is recognising how you feel so you can employ strategies to make good decisions, leading to good behaviours. For some, this comes naturally and is regularly modelled in their lives; for others, it requires explicit teaching and exposure to strategies that build emotional literacy.
That emotional regulation is important is not in question. When students feel positive emotions like joy, excitement, or contentment, they are more likely to be engaged, motivated, and cooperative. Conversely, negative emotions such as anger, frustration, or sadness—especially when students are emotionally illiterate—can lead to disruptive behaviours, difficulty concentrating, and a decline in academic performance.
By regularly monitoring student emotions through check-ins, educators can embed proactive prevention strategies such as:
By understanding the emotional factors that influence student behaviour, educators can create more supportive and effective learning environments. Practising empathy and providing emotional support can help students develop the social and emotional skills they need to succeed.
Every student is unique, and their emotional needs will vary. By taking the time to understand each student's individual needs, we can create a more positive and productive learning experience for all.
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